The biggest challenge since I got pregnant has been getting to my prenatal care.
I’m in school right now. The school tells me that I can’t check myself out from school for my prenatal appointments. They tell me that I need my mom to sign me out or call in. But I don’t live with my mom. When I got pregnant, my mom told me,“You’re pregnant and that’s on you. Don’t get me involved.” I moved in with my boyfriend and his aunt two months ago. My mom and I don’t talk anymore and there is no one to check me out from school.
Being able to check myself out for appointments and back in to school would let me go to an appointment in the early morning and then have enough time to come back to school and only miss one period of class. Instead, I have to reschedule my appointments at the last minute if I can’t get leave school, or I have to make an appointment in the afternoon and leave school early. If I have an afternoon appointment and miss the bus, I get there too late and have to reschedule. And some of my appointments, like blood tests, have to happen first thing in the morning,
It would be better if the school let me leave and just said bring a note or a card from your doctor to show where you were. I just learned that the law says the school is supposed to let me check myself out, but I didn’t know that before. Next time I am going to try that and tell the school its the law.